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Ruts in the Road of Our Lives

Comfort zones are like ruts in the road. Once you’re in one it’s hard to get out. It’s also easy to fall back into one if you ever do get out. It can be painful. Some comfort zones can be as damaging as a deep rut in the road. Staying in a comfort zone, even if it’s a good one, can be problematic because it can prevent growth. Certainly, the bad ones need to be left behind as quickly as possible.

We all have pain. We all have sadness. We all have struggles. There are so many things that make deep ruts in the roads of our lives.

“Desires dictate our priorities, priorities shape our choices, and choices determine our actions. The desires we act on determine our changing, our achieving, and our becoming.” 

(Dallin H. Oaks Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles; Desire; April 2011 General Conference; https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2011/04/desire?lang=eng/)

I heard a song on the radio once that said, “Impossible is not a word. It’s just an excuse for someone not to try.” (http://www.kutless.com) I wondered if William Scott or Scott A Krippaehne, who wrote the song, had ever been in a situation like mine? Driving down the dark road that night, frustration overwhelmed me as I looked at the darkest places of my life. While in the darkness, ‘impossible’ was what it felt like! At the time, I thought it was rude of someone to say such a thing. 

Find Possible in the Impossible

Looking closer to find a way to explain just how impossible everything had been, I was surprised to see that it wasn’t really impossible. What made me feel like it was impossible had first been my lack of HOPE. Secondly, I had to find a new way to look at my life and find the possible in my impossible situation.

While writing my yet to be published book, “Being ‘THAT’ Happy,” I went through some counseling that showed me how to change the way my brain worked. Also, through many miracles and amazing spiritual experiences I met and married my husband who is truly “THAT Happy” all the time! I’m serious…. ALL the time! He’s just that happy!

“THAT” Happy!

Now, all I want to do is help others, especially single women, learn how to the “THAT Happy” too. It is possible!

I am a Professional Speaker, Mentor, Philanthropist, Podcaster, and Business Consultant. Since 2011 I have educated and collaborated with hundreds of clients and entrepreneurs from all walks of life around the world. Talking about business is one of the things that kept me alive for many years, but now I prefer speaking at firesides for single adults, women’s groups, and other events where my story can inspire the audience facilitating a change starting right now.

Sharing my journey from the darkest prison into the bright light of happily ever after brings joy to my soul! My trademark is fun, high-energy, interactive experiences that leave audiences fired up and ready to take on their next challenge.

Escape the Fear With Me!

From one escaped inmate to a soon to be escaped inmate, know that I love you and I pray and hope that you will find your way out of the prison life may have put you in! I know you can!

See you on the other side!

*Featured expert on international panels, podcasts, and educational summits, most notably working with the Ladies Who Lunch Network, The Inspired Women Project, and the Online International Virtual Assistants’ Convention.

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A Journey from the Darkest Prison into the Brightest Light of Happily Ever After

A real life story of trials, tribulation, triumph, and true love.


Tigger and Mayberry lived totally different lives. Yet through God’s timing they found each other at a critical moment for them both.

Having lived the last 30 years with trials that seemed unbearable, Mayberry found herself in a desperate situation. She leaned heavily on her red chair as she cried out a desperate plea to God, “Are you about done with me yet? I can’t take it anymore!”

At that same moment Tigger was walking in his backyard mourning the death of his wife, Annie, of 29 years. He was wondering how he could ever live the rest of his life alone. As he opened the dating site and saw Mayberry’s picture appear again, after being gone for over a week, his heart began to pound and he knew what he had to do.

Sometimes life can feel like a prison and that prison can feel like a deep, dark, dungeon. Where is the mystical key to open the prison doors? This love story shows how to find joy in the darkness and use that joy to begin living in the light.

How could Tigger, who had lived the life of a fairytale, ever fall in love with Mayberry, who had been living a nightmare for many, many years? Will Mayberry’s fear, baggage, stubbornness, and locked prison doors keep them apart or will they end up living happily ever after?

Is happily ever after even possible?

Take Your Journey out of the Darkness into the Light

  • Recognize and acknowledge your feelings
  • Consider your options. 
  • Decide what you want from your life. 
  • Forgive yourself and forgive others. 
  • Determine what changes need to be made in your life. 

Finding your way out of darkness and into the light is a personal journey no matter your life situation. Being selfish through this journey is necessary. It’s the only way to reach the other side. Only you can do it. No one can do it for you. But don’t worry! This journey into the light will not only bring you joy and happiness but your light will also shine on everyone around you. Also, remember that even though this is your personal journey, you don’t have to do it alone. 

As always, God is with you, even if you feel you don’t have anyone else. He knows you and He knows what you need more than you do. He knows the future. He knows where your joy and light will be found. It’s time to fulfill the purpose He gave you.

Who R U? Plus… How to Make Quick, Smart Actionable Decisions

Take Aways:

1) Find out who YOU are

HINT: It’s NOT what you do and knowing this will make entrepreneur life easier and more fun!

2) Learn to make quick, smart, actionable decisions

HINT: This is a simple process that will make it simple to integrate life and entrepreneurship.

3) Change the world!

HINT: Sometimes the smallest step in the right direction ends up being the biggest step of your life. Tiptoe if you must… but dog-gon-nit… take that step.

Unleash Your Maximum Potential!

After 3 failed marriages and basically being a single mom of 5 for 28 years, and an entrepreneur for the last 10 of those years, Sheila learned a lot of skills to keep moving forward. In doing this, she lost her true self and became an empty shell of who she could have been.

In 2017 Sheila was introduced to the I Am Statement. Three years later she finally completed this powerful tool and learned to truly love herself and become the woman she knew she had deep inside of herself.

In 2020 she married the man of her dreams and as it turns out, he teaching decision-making to the military! He taught Sheila how to make quick, smart, and actionable decisions which changed her life even more. She figured out that by using these same tactics the military uses in war, she could help women apply them to the battle of daily life and being a business owner.

It also surprisingly taught her how to set boundaries, which is also something that she struggled with her entire life. Sheila is empathic and intuitive so boundaries and decision-making have always been something she needed to learn to unleash her maximum potential.

Now she (and sometimes her husband together) teaches and facilitates how this works on podcasts and in events both online and offline.

AUDIENCE: Excellent for entrepreneurs, moms, corporate peeps, or anyone else who wants to learn to maximize their time and integrate life and business for more peace and success.

AutoPilot Biz: Create an Income-Generating Powerhouse Business

Remember why you started your business in the first place? I bet it wasn’t to run the back end of your business right? Being a business owner doesn’t have to be as hard as you think, but most entrepreneurs don’t know it. Why? Because they started out wanting to change the lives of their customers, not run a business.

Growing your business is a worthy goal and necessary for your business survival and your economic well-being and sanity! Create an income-generating powerhouse by setting your business on auto-pilot. I’ve built 4 successful businesses of my own and helped my clients go from solopreneur to CEO, along with having big business growth and financial success and I’ll show you how to do it step by step.

Great for entrepreneurs and real estate agents. Sheila has more than 20 years of experience as a licensed real estate assistant both in-office and virtual. She has inside experience assisting real estate agents with the move into using a team of assistants to double or more their annual sales while making more time for their families. She took this experience with her into the entrepreneur world creating and developing a system that turns solopreneurs into CEOs and increasing sales along the way.

Alternatively “The Power of YOU through Personal Branding”

Will the real YOU please stand up? Find out who you really are and create true JOY in your life and for those around you. When YOU are taking care of yourself and serving your purpose the possibilities are endless!

Great for women’s groups, young women’s groups, entrepreneurs, corporate audiences, and customer support staff. If your team is losing steam or they aren’t as engaged as you would like, let’s help them find the joy in themselves so they can bring it to your office and get things rolling again! Your clients and customers will love your staff if they love themselves! Also, great for high schoolers, real estate offices, and entrepreneurs who have lost the light in their eyes and need a boost!

Overcoming the Team Gap

What do you do when you can’t grow without a team, but you don’t have the money for a team, but you can’t make it to the next step without a team and you’re burning out because you’re working yourself to the bone and you can’t even remember why you started your business anyway… It’s time to overcome the Team Gap!

Great for both entrepreneurs and real estate agents looking to move into the next income level of their business. Sheila has created a system that will blow your socks off and won’t cost you a dime!

Turn Your Hobbies into Profits

Want to make money doing what you love? Want to turn what you’re doing into a real business and quit your 9-5? It’s time to love getting out of bed every morning again and doing what you love all day… and having the money to live your dreams!

Fun for any audience, this is more like a TEDx Talk. Get motivated and excited to make some money on the side or build an empire! Either way, let’s get some money rolling into your accounts by doing what you love! Great for high school or corporate audiences as well!

Genuine! Motivating! Knowledgeable!

Kind, a good heart and motivated – Sheila is meant to be doing what she is doing and can help your business go leaps and bounds!

Angie Fisher
Coaching Success Systems

I love the way Sheila presents and makes everything so very do-able. She motivates you and genuinely wants you to succeed!

Candance Towner

I just wanted to say THANK YOU. Really motivational. Can not tell you how many times I either cried or bit my lip. Powerful yet honest. Loved it!

Melania Macias

When I listen to her speak, her love of the subject matter shines through and it’s very motivating. She has a friendly and personable way of speaking and she never makes you feel like you’ve asked a dumb question. Her enthusiasm can’t help but draw you in and make you want to know more.

Melissa Sasser
Polished Tasks

In Action!